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How to Play in a Jam

Lots of people learn to play an instrument, maybe take lessons, and play for their own enjoyment. Playing with others in a jam is a completely different experience.

Prepare

  1. Review the Jam Prep information.
  2. If you are new to bluegrass, you may want to consider purchasing at least one of the books listed on the Resources page. There is something to be said for learning completely without any music in front of you; if you are regularly playing with experienced jammers and song leaders you can learn song by following along. However, the reality is that most folks need at least a basic place to start by having lyrics and chords available. That being said, you will eventually learn songs (and your instrument, and jamming) well enough to play without. It’s very freeing to not have your eyes glued to the page! That’s the goal, and it’s OK to have music while your still learning (and even experienced jammers routinely need song lyrics).
  3. Scope out our jam location and figure out your parking.

At the Jam

  1. Find a place to sit among others in the circle. If you are still learning songs and chord changes, try to sit where you can see an experienced guitar player (a “Guitar Billboard“) to follow the song.
  2. Introduce yourself to others. You might be the shy type, but at a jam it’s important to know names so that you can communicate while playing! Don’t be afraid to ask someone to repeat their name; they’ve probably forgotten yours as well!
  3. Don’t be afraid to ask the song leader to repeat or clarify information. If you are a beginner, the terms, songs, chords and so on may be confusing. The jam leader should help in this regard by making sure the song leader has explained everything as needed.
  4. Don’t noodle! This is explained in the Jam Etiquette, but it is worth repeating. It is incredibly disruptive.
  5. Don’t be afraid to sing along on the chorus! If you aren’t feeling ready to harmonize, just jump in with the song leader on the melody. If you are still getting up your nerve to sing in front of others, this is one way to expand your comfort zone.
  6. Maintain eye contact with the song leader. If you are a beginner you may need to watch your hands, but try to look up on occasion.
  7. Be brave and lead a song. If you are a beginner, it can be daunting to lead a song. Review our How to Lead a Song guidance and watch others for tips.

Remember

  1. Everyone has been a beginner. Many of us started learning our instruments and playing in jams as adults, and sometimes later in life.
  2. Be inspired by the other jammers, not intimidated! It’s easy to feel intimidated by more experienced players around you, but those folks were beginners themselves at some point. They are proof that it can be done!
  3. It’s OK to ask questions. This is a repeat from above, but it bears repeating! You can also contact your jam organizers.